Values of a friendship

DENGAN NAMA ALLAH YANG MAHA PEMURAH LAGI MAHA PENYAYANG

(Tidaklah aku menulis hari ini melainkan dengan keizinan dari-Nya)

What does friendship means to you guys? Simple word but has a different meaning for individual. This is a story about a guy. Once in my life.. I think it's okay if i say that I never meet this kind of person in real life. Actually there is a person like him but it hard to find. Might be 1 out of 10? ~I guess~

I know this guy for a very long time. He is the type of person that willing to do everything to help his friends. Anything they asked, as long as he can do it. He will feel sorry and sincerely apologize if he can't help them. Immediately, after a friend call and asked for him he will go. Even if the matter is about money he will borrowed it for someone his trusted. As a result, whenever he need someone there must be his friends who always help him and be by his side. To be honest, he make me realized how important to be a good friend especially when you are needed. 

I still remember one day there is a big event that he need to conduct and he can't do it just by himself. He need support. I was surprised back then because majority who came and help him was his friends. Most of them are volunteer to help, and he play a role like a leader who give instruction. Watching all that happen in front of my eyes make me wonder what is exactly a friendship means to him? Silently, I wish that I can be like him one day.

Out of the blue, watching him and his friends reminds me of my friends when I'm in secondary school three years before. We fight for the future and always be together. The hard times that we faced together, every single things that we shared, the sad and happiness... it just a lot of memory that we create together. Even it was hard but together we faced it and smile brightly to fight. I miss that time. Sometimes I do asked myself:

 "Would it be okay if I still stuck in that period of time?" 

I know it can't be like that because everyday it will be a new days for us and we'll meet a new friends, people, and situation.

I'm not saying this to compare what I have now and before but what I'm trying to say is once you have a friends treat them nicely and appreciate them. Always be by their side no matter what happens. It is more than enough. To my friends, thanks a lot for being my friends. You might never heard this from me but I really appreciate you guys. I'm sorry because I couldn't say this in front of you. Thanks for come and make my life colorful. I might be not good enough to be your friend like what that guy do but I'm trying hard to be a good friend for you. Thanks a lot.

In this world, there's two type of happiness. 

Firstly is after the time you look and think "I was happy back then", you realize that you were happy after the event.

Second is realizing you are happy at the present time. Realizing at that moment is so precious. You make that moment a memory. It's bright enough to relive it for the rest of your life.

Have you found your happiness yet?   

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